Women’s Group Self Assessment Step 1 of 3 33% Name(Required) First Last Your Phone(Required)Email Check the item that best describes the violence and intimidation that occurs in your relationship (or past relationship) I am mostly the aggressor. When he uses violence it is typically in reation to mine. He is mostly the aggressor. My use of violence is typically in reaction to his. He is the aggressor and I rarely or never use violence back. I am the aggressor and he rarely or never uses violcence back. My use of violence/intimidation and his use of violence and intimidation are equal Our violence and intimidation are equal in FREQUENCY Yes No Our violence and intimidation are equal in SEVERITY Yes No Our violence and intimidation are equal in HARM TO EACH OTHER Yes No Our violence and intimidation are equal in HARM TO OUR CHILDREN Yes No Our violence and intimidation are equal in HARM TO OTHERS Yes No Who does the following in the relationship?Not let the other go to school or work certain jobs neither of us mostly me mostly him Keep the other from having friends and close relationships with others neither of us mostly me mostly him Try to turn the children against the other neither of us mostly me mostly him Pressure for sex in a way or when the other doesn't want neither of us mostly me mostly him Acts unpredictably in their response to situations making the other person feel like they are walking on eggshells neither of us mostly me mostly him Frequently put the other person down by name calling, yelling, or humiliating the other in public neither of us mostly me mostly him When he uses violence or intimidation it is usually about:When I use violence or intimidation it is usually about:The biggest way my partner controls me is through:The biggest way I control my partner is through:Please prove you're human.
